Is There Room For A "Marry-Thon" In The Future?

Is there a Thon in the future?

Thon is as delicious as ever and we met for an impromptu lunch last Wednesday.  It's always good to see his smiling face and to talk to him.  Of course, we had "lunch" so there wasn't much talking.  But there is a strange connection between us.  I mean, we are perfectly happy where we are in our relationship, if you want to call it that.  Is that weird?  I mean, I don't want a more in-depth relationship with Thon.  Not that he's not a great guy, it's just that what we have is just right.  I got a little nervous when he asked me if I wanted more of a relationship with him.

Gulp.  Ummm...No, Thon.  Gosh, that sounds so weird.  I guess, Thon and I would be the perfect roomies.  I would expect nothing more from him than what I get and nothing more is expected of me than what I give.  Sounds a bit like perfection.  What we have is the best relationship with a man that I have had in many years.  I can actually enjoy being in his company without all the emotional bubblegum sticking us together.  I truly want to know how to be able to apply that line of thinking with Jack and Robbie. 

I'm just fine being the bridesmaid.

Later, Thon and I followed up on the topic of our relationship.  We both agree that we shouldn't try to fix what is not broken or put our relationship in some sort of kooky social box.  It is what it is and what it is...we are happy with.